Kaacch..!! :D

Now... this post is gonna have some real stuff!
Not only because its about a very close friend, but also about my new SON (seemingly older than me ;D ) Well well, before any of dat sets ur minds racing, i have just adopted a fully grown 20 something Gujarati, left earlobe pierced, with a khandaani double-chin and a somewat bulging belly (wch says "all is well") :P ok now dat just sounded  like the description for a jailbreak accused :D
Lets call him Kach... meaning glass.. well i cud say fragile glass (referring to how well we know him)
Too many adjectives actually to describe him... lets start wid some!! :D
* THE lame PJ devta:
yes! u can't beat him! i bet my fortune on dat :/
for exp:
>me: hey kach! how u doing?
kach: oh im awesome! coz i use cinthol!
.................. :/ seriously? X(

>(looking at my bangle)
kach: ye sone ka hai?
me: ha kyu?
kach: toh sulati kidhar tu isko??
...............aaarrgghh!!

>kach says bachpan mein main chota tha! :)
kyaa??? sorry hum toh bachpan se adult the :/
*THE troll master:
oh god i mean this! nobody troll like kach trolls :P
for exp:
if u ask him to click a picture of u, he will position the camera at u and take HIS OWN pic using the front cam :/ :D
*THE Mr. Bechara:
wen i first asked, how many has Kach dated? the answer was, "i lost count..."
OKAY! now that is the height of sarcasm EVER for Kach! this boy dsnt even know how to flirt! he keeps chatting only wid his sisters all day long! :D hez always been single :P (too rare for a love-struck romantic like him!)
now i really feel like a mother filling up for her son on a matrimony site! :|
*THE Devdas:
undebatedly, this point has to come next! tooo senti regarding just one person!
any girl... and trust me on this, just any girl wud actually KILL for a devdas like this in this age :D
well, the less said the better! :X
lets MOVE ON to the next point ;)
(i.e. if u get my POINT here :P)
*THE Weirdo:
Oooh yes! n i'll tell u why!
Kach will eat rice only with bare hands. he will never use a spoon! WHY? because then otherwise he dsnt get the feel of eating it :O
usually, people eat poha and drink tea. and then ders Kach! y waste energy doing two things? he mixes his tea along with the poha and relishes that! :O :D WWHHAATTT!!!
he loves his wafers way TOO much! Kach alone is enough to put the "Budhani Bros." out of business.
and the most weirdest thing of all, people still call this man normal :D
*THE Tansen:
he will sing to "hey shona...." all day long with dat blessed voice of his (too much, just too much sarcasm intended wid dat adjective :D ) and irritate me to bits! :P
*THE Hasmukh dikra:
yes, he can get that smile on ur face any given time! no matter what hez going through :D :)
(P.S.: that may even include some of his potentially deadly pj's!) :P
                              this post was promised to him eons ago :D because Kach is already too much into future planning. he says he will print this out and show it to his grand kids! :O XD
but i just needed a lil more time on the research ;) wat u read here is not even an ounce of what he really is! unless u haven't met this blonde u don't know him :P OK sorry but i know ur already gonna kill me for publishing some things here ;) but its all worth it ;)
                                                                                                         -Love, Momma :D
hahahaha......................................... :P ;)

An ode to the lovely society..!

                                        Shopping in the day n blogging by night! seems like a nice Saturday to me ;)
so. sitting by the desktop, downloading songs, munching on some sago snack..(one of my FAV)! ... a scene outside catches my sight. NOTHING unusual. a bunch of "bored by the housework" aunties. no prizes for guessing the round table conference held by them is always gossiping. wonder what updates all the newsfeed! OK! so here lets make a guess. on d possible topics n scrutinize a bit ;)
AAHH! so much fun proving people wrong :P ;)
1.AFFAIRS:
This could effortlessly be labelled as the great Indian gossip stock.
Dear people, if u see a boy wid a girl or vice versa, it dsnt necessarily mean dey cud be lovers. m not saying never! but pls spare the horrifying stares :/ they cud be great friends. it gets embarrassing.
2.STUDIES:
As much as mothers like to brag abt deir children's achievements, dey also humiliate u wen somebdy asks, "beta, padhai kaise chalu hai????" LADY! u forgot to wish d kid on his birthday! how come u no forget result days?? :O and ur mother will say"arey bhabhi! usne toh padhai karna chod hi diya hai!" OMG! how much sympathy did dat just garner! :/  not dat telling people u dnt study made ur scores any better. get ur child to do wat he/she wants to. maybe then u cud hold ur head up high n say, "padhai toh achi hi chal rahi hai!"
3.WEDDINGS:
What's India without dem anyway! if der is a love match, then its upto dem to self employ demselves as detectives n find how dey met, go home n lecture their kids wat great sin it is to fall in love! REALLY? :/
n if its an arranged match, den d boy's mother is flooded wid national issues like.. how much did she get? :O OMG i really had no clue dat d bride is supposed to giv u ur desperate rags to riches story! well its mostly d later case coz in the Biggest Democratic of d world, people dnt hav the right to choose whom dey wanna spend deir life wid! giving boys a great reason to flirt around like, "babe i can date u, but i cant marry u."
4.LOVE/SEX:
Oh common! face it. i dunno why its such a taboo here?
dear aunty jis, with all due respect, if a person.. here mostly a teenager or youth talks about sex its not because dey r spoilt. its more bcoz dey are aware.
n love.. well, much has been said alrdy. a word of advice: love dsnt solely mean eloping, leaving ur family or getting pregnant.
5.SAREES/JEWELLERY/DRESSES:
Alright! now this topic is more sensitive than d above so NO COMMENTS! :X i zip.
but.. well pls do keep ur ideas to ur wardrobes. v like our jeans, leggings, trousers and occasional skirts, shorts n dresses :D it wud be great to not be judged on what u wear :|... Sincerely, Teenagers n Youth!
6.LANGUAGE/SLANG:
Well, u see... some of ur friends are still learning :P
7.USE OF MOBILES:
Honestly, nothing much to hide! v jus like talking to our friends just like you! stop suspecting v have 10 lovers n are love chatting to all! :O (random... but we do have morals. vr not d cases who go arnd flirting with any tom dick and harrys) :)


P.S.: i do not wish to claim dat all aunty jis are d same. iv seen a hell lotta cool moms n auntys. this is intended for pun! :D :P

                                    NOW! dat feels some GOOD!!! :D
Not sure if any auntys are gonna read this, but nonetheless, a one side debate just WON! ;)
                                                                 CHEERS! :D: D :D

I'm T&C applied! :/ :P

some good inspirations u could say.. the blog seems to be getting timely updates ;)

Been long since iv wanted to write on this, but never really happened. one of d most dreaded topics these days.... LOVE. well, its not actually dreaded in reality. just that people do not talk of it in public (n here even God doesn't know why!)

it is indeed a beautiful feeling, 

but wait. let us go the more dreaded side of it. the break ups!

what is it? is it when u end up dating someone? no. u can go on after that too. its probably when one decides that nothing is the same.

how really do u deal with those?! 

ur lover might say: its all over.

ur friends might say: forget d person, dint deserve u anyway. don't think of it.

acquaintances might say: happens. 

moreover if ur big Indian family knows: i told you not to get into this! where do u listen? now sit with it. and blah blah blah and some more of it.

UFFF!

but what do YOU say? what do YOU feel?

is it that easy to change ur mind and feelings for that someone special and go ahead like nothing happened? can u move on so soon in a day? NO, you cannot. well, nobody can. that reminds me a famous movie dialogue, "when ur heart breaks, only your eyes show pain. but as a matter of fact, every part of ur body celebrates depression."

why do all these happen?

Is it because you fall for the wrong person? some say yes. but id say its not the wrong person. it is the place, time and things that go wrong.
In Ek Deewana Tha, Sachin never got over Jessie because he truly loved her even though she even had agreed to marry another guy.!

Is it because you value ur ego more than the person? perhaps. strange but true, this does happen. 

you speak of the chance u once gave and comfortably forget how many uv received. how uv been forgiven every time u make them wait, made them jealous, ignored and took impulsive decisions and how they still stood by you.

there is no ego in love. well, there shouldn't be any either. 

when u speak of tolerance and irritation, don't overlook what u did. 

when u speak of hurt, you don't see what uv inflicted on them.

everybody makes mistakes. after all ur only human. but what is love if u do not forgive? how can u not know that u too are forgiven many times.. knowingly or unknowingly; with or without your knowledge?

come to think of it.. why do u think someone tries to save the situation despite being hurt? do they not have their ego and self respect???

well, they do. and probably more than you! it simply means they place you before all that. they cared more than u ever thought.

one of the main reasons for all this is that people do not have time.. to meet, talk, discuss or anything. maybe that's why relationships are harder these days.

don't make them fall if ur not gonna catch them! don't defeat them when they fight for you!

and wait a second.! how long do you think will they run behind you and fix up things?

some specific time,...but definetly not forever. because sometimes you just have to chill and go with the flow. you have to let things happen that are beyond your control. u have to be brave put a smile on ur face and go on.

its sad people forget the miracles, changes and happiness that happened to them.

how one silly misunderstanding or fight makes you forget the wonderful time ul have had, the amazing people ul were!

have you ever given a thought as to why they must ve reacted that way? there surely is a reason darling! :)

perhaps, to make all the efforts worthwhile! (:

you probably never think how long something u said stays in their minds... 

and have u said u wanted to be good friends with somebody? Hahahaha..! oh my dear! true love never ends in just friendship. its always something more.. that even u don't know ;)

u feel superior when u hurt them? n u think might they sit crying forever? not really, coz they just learn to let go and go with the flow. there is no other option they are left with. do not complain then :D

A famous saying goes... "don't judge people by the way they speak, but by the way they care. because the mind speaks and care comes from a truthful heart..." :) 

and oh common if ur on this side, just smile dear!! :) life is too short to keep grudges, be sad or wake up with regrets.

and for those on the other side, stop thinking too much. just lock away ur brains n listen to ur heart. coz its not everyday that you come across someone who divides ur life into a pre and post phase of life after being with them! :):):) ... 

...and as one of my earlier blog says, "true love stories never end."

Mr. Bestie!

GELATO!
sweets are usually not my thing, but gelato is an exception. :)
alright before i confuse you anymore, gelato is my best friend! or perhaps that is an understatement. :D
no, that's not his name! it is inspired from the deepika-imraan starrer 'Break K Baad'.
no love no break up no expectation no mess, only an amazing friendship here :) (v just liked d movie :P )
the more i write about him, the less it actually is!
something about me is funny. the ways in which I meet my special people are weird :/
this nut! i met him for the first time at Fergusson. we were in the 11th. if i had to describe him as per our first meeting: a full nerd who loves solving bangui all day. integration and differentiation were like ABCD to him. :/ (complex! big complex i have against you!)
and P.S: he used to solve our class assignments :P (thank you for that.)
i met him through a common friend, not knowing how insanely uncommon he is :D
as it goes, slowly we got talking.
and i got to know what a BIG flirt he is! he is impossible :/ he will flirt with anything even remotely feminine :D (no offence gelat..!!)
with time we became jay and veeru. (according to him im his "buoy") =D
so now, our Bollywood breathing society says "ek ladka aur ek ladki kabhi dost nahi ban sakte."
And.... the world thinks we are, we were or will be seeing each other at some point of time ;)
People! NO. we cannot date each other. and we never will. (even if he falls for me :P)
its fun when some south indian delicacy is made at home and his aai says, "haan aaj toh tu ache se khane wala hai" hahahahaha Aai! ur so cute :D love you... (yeah they are aai n baba for me too)
it was meant to be, like tom and jerry, laurel and hardy ;) constantly bickering at each other but never without the other :D
a psyche that he is, comes home unexpectedly to give me surprises. (a big P.S. I LOVE surprises! and gifts and... ok later :P)
irony, he is also my biggest surprise spoiler :/ he always (well almost) ends up telling me wat hez upto :D
and sometimes when im "surprised" to see him again, he says, "dude, iv come to meet dad, not u!" uugghh! alright! XD
we are like too immature for ourselves and overtly mature for each other. when im low, im a complete baby with him making me understand the how-n-how of things. and when hez low im like his mother telling him what to do n what not :D (ok i lovveee scolding this boy)
result: he does not receive calls anymore when he is driving. yaayyy!
he will ping me first because im a girl. hehehehe (oh but i also do that! anyway...)
his first salary will get me an Audi :P ok that is too much i know :D
and on and on and on......
14 months younger to me, my lil best friend this is just a small tribute to ur mad soul :D
XOXOXO

Finally an "A"!

             Apu n me share birthdays in may. So she plans for me n i plan for her surprise with the others. But this year, i could never sense anybody's enthusiasm for my day. It all started around April, much to my annoyance.
for ex.:
trisha: hey we must get a chocolate cake for apu! she loves it. n then we'll surprise her at midnight and blah blah blah...
abhi: wooow! yes! we'll do that. and then the birthday bumps and the cake facial! super fun! may 11th is gonna be fun! blah blah blah...
me: oh yea! we must get a gift for her too! n then blah blah... my birthday in 3 days... blah blah.. 
trisha n abhi: (almost the same irritating cold reply) ooh yea.. ur birthday too.. hmmmm. we won't be there, coz we're leaving on 14th itself to Nainital. so lets come back n plan something if we get the time.
me: (what the hell? how dare u guys react like i made u eat cold sizzlers!?) *angry*
        And preparations for apu started (as we were done with our exams and had all the time n the world!). Then came MAY! i was soo happy! Even when i got angry on these people for not showing any interest, i kept telling myself, "don't worry, they're planning something for u too.. maybe another surprise!"
But then as soon as this spark came to my mind, these people used to extinguish it with their poker faces n clueless expressions. Duhh... im done now! I hate these people for doing this to me! Lucky apu!
To add to all this, i was excluded from apu's birthday surprise too. Now my anger was boiling more than alcohol!

*13th May*
      i looked like Nirupa Roy (all sad), and sitting online i hoped to talk to someone to feel better. No smiles, no hopes n no expectations.. 18th birthday doomed! :(  i wanted to kill them for leaving for nainital on 14th May itself! (their reason for not celebrating my day..! *angry*)
Just then abhi's mom came online. 
aunty: hey vaidehi!
me: hi aunty..
aunty: kya hua? 
me: they are leaving tonight. kal birthday hai. they didn't even remember.
aunty: nahi beta, aisa nahi hai. they love u a lot. u don't know..
me: hmmm.. that's being seen.
aunty: toh kya hua, we are here! we will all celebrate.
me: (feeling better speaking to someone) yes aunty :)
aunty: ok beta, i have to go now, happy birthday! 
me: thank u aunty!
       Now i was not bothered about them. who says i won't have a birthday if they are not here! even if they are my best friends! *attitude* ;)
I was in my room around 11.00 pm when i heard a rickshaw pull up. I didn't bother (as my neighbor's house is one big guest house! they have guests 365 days a normal year n 366 days a leap year!).
then one more rickshaw passed by. poor things i thought, these guests never leave them alone.
         In 5 minutes, somebody knocks the door. wondering who it was at this time of the night, i looked through the peep-hole. 1,2,3,... and 4 heads, i counted! OMG! These 4 monkeys! i could hardly manage to open the door out of excitement! I opened the door and it was now that i looked like the actual Nirupa Roy reuniting with her Karan-Arjuns! i was soo happy! so thrilled and excited! (hate to admit, but yes, almost in tears) :P
Soon we cut the cake with the candles arranged as 81 :) and got done with all the "rituals" of kicks n facials. My birthday was now complete! It didn't matter even if i didn't celebrate in the day! 
It is then that i get to know, that they'd been planning for my birthday since the past 2 months, because they were leaving on the same day.
They even excluded me for Apu's surprise because they wanted to plan better.
And they even managed to get Sudhu (who lives in mumbai) to my place.
Abhi's mom n sister were also well aware (they were warned by these people to not let anything out).
Moreover, they were roaming with the cake wherever they went since sunset!
Aaahhh, what more could i have asked for! :)
                 As they had no more time to wait, i ran out to see them off with the cream still on my face, trying to get off whatever was possible with hands :P 
One of the best and most memorable days on my life! trisha, abhi, sudhu n apu <3 !

Encounter with the "Geek"

10th September, i remember the day was a great one. it was Id, my brother's anniversary and a baby's birthday. throughout the day i had only been eating and making fun with my 'peoples'. i came home and my mother reminded me, "today is kiddo's (lets call that baby kiddo here) birthday. we have to go there in the evening." "ok..." i replied, thinking how i was going to manage eating more food that day (i already had 2 lunches). we reached there. unlike a two year old kid's birthday, i could find only old people. ah! i thought, whatever i am going to do here.!
occasionally i saw a boy roaming aimlessly around the house. say, he looked around my age.. wearing a loose over-sized t-shirt that belonged to his uncle (which i got to know only later from him), dark specs, unshaved, sole handler of the camera.. one glance and he looked the quintessential geek.
the cake was cut and we sang 'happy birthday to you...' and he was standing behind, spraying the party snow on everyone present there. ok, this geek knew how to have fun and he was laughing too! i decided to sit in the hall and started checking out the pics in the cam. suddenly, he came there searching for it.
me: here, take it..
he: no no! its ok. u see the pics, i'll come later..
what a nerd i thought. i gave him the cam and went out. he suddenly came in my way and said hi. i was flabbergasted! what do i talk to him? i managed another "hi".
he: what do u do?
me: im doing my SYJC. what about you?
he: just done with my engineering, working with Patni computers. my results were out yesterday.
Omg! i thought. an engineer? in 10 minutes i knew he had graduated in EnTC from Atharva college in Mumbai, a PG in pune, went to kalrashukla classes, had biology in 12th and had a bond with his company for 2 years (which he was not very keen on completing)... he went on to explain everything and i was standing there listening to him, hoping some interesting conversation would pop up as i had nothing much to do there.
me: aapka naam kya hai? (as he was elder)
he: mujhe 'aap' mat kaho. 'tum' bolo. 'aap' bohot ajeeb lagta hai. my name is nitin.
me: ok sure. i am vaidehi.
he: nice name.
me: thanks.

ah, what boring people we are! the kiddo's dad then introduced him. "this is my niece... oh i am sorry, my nephew i mean."  nephew??? such a big nephew??? so the two year old kiddo has a brother who is a graduate?!! ok, maybe. both of us didn't bother to tell him that we already got ourselves introduced :)
we spoke a li'll more and then i left. i didn't bother to even say bye. i just wanted to go home and sleep as my tummy was on the verge of bursting with all the biryani  and the birthday cake.
a few days later i thought of searching him on facebook, the greatest 'friend search engine'. 'Nitin' i typed in...     oh wait! i didn't know his surname! what disappointment! that made me want to hunt more for him! so i put in all possible malayalee surnames i could think of : nair, pillai, menon, panicker, prasad, mohan, chandran, etc. etc. all in vain..!
and one day in my friend suggestions, i read, "Nitin G", one mutual friend and his pic was there too (though he looked a little different with his straightened hair)! i sent him a request and a message too, trying to remind him how and where we met (i really didn't expect him to remember me).
andd the rest is history... i used to be his BBC regarding all possible news related to the kiddo and his famliy when he was in pune (now happily working in mumbai).
Eg: me: hey congrats! ur chechi is getting engaged.!
he: huh? really? ok.... i don't know, i'll ask.. thanks btw!
 we spoke about everything from food and drinks to exams and 'guys', with him telling me how guys are and warning me to stay away from them (the bad ones).. :)  its been great with this friend, philosopher, guide and the quintessential "Big Brother" at times! he has promised to find my Mr. Right for me and i have been heavily bribed to write good things about him ;) (bribe: sponsor my wedding! to do so for a malayalee wedding, and that too from the girl's side is definitely a brave decision for sure!)
LOL! but if i'd have to describe him, he's the nerd, one who pays nearly 25,000 bucks for gymming (which i don't really think he needs- all thanks to his size zero physique) the guitarist of his band 'decibel breakdown', a fantastic friend and going by his 'choice', a great taste!
just a couple of months of knowing this fabulous soul, and we have still never met as yet...

Onasadya...

last year i probably had the best onam ever. it all started with a silly conversation with gelato (or abhi). 

we were chatting late at night and i told him it was onam tomorrow. ok, now being a maharashtrian he knew about the festival but didn't know of its significance and he wanted me to tell him about it. and there i was, in the middle of the night, explaining to mr. Deshapnde why we south indians celebrated onam. a lot of 'but y...' doubts, but i finally pulled it off! the next thing he told me was, "im coming kal khane pe" i think i mentioned about the delicious 'onasadya', the daawat made for onam ;) and then he went on with his all-time non-stop 24/7 nonsense like wat gift do i get for u? tell me wat u want, et.al. he is the biggest flirting chalta firta romantic on earth. so can't expect anything less either! anyways i told him to shut up and went off to sleep, thinking of my 'onakodi', my new dress for onam, onasadya etc. etc.

the morning was good because i was already thinking of lunch. i ate little, very litte breakfast because i was making space for rice, sambar, dal, papads, pickles, sabji, avial, bananas, chips, payasam, etc. i also made a small 'pookalam', rangoli with flowers outside the house. just then motu texted me, "happy onam vedu". i sent the "thanks motu". and the next text was "abhi n me coming for lunch"... WHAT??? are u serious??? and she gave me numerous affirmations untill it finally sank in. the main reason i wanted a REAL confirmation was beacuse, mom had prepared lunch just for the 3 of us (achan, amma n me) and she had left for office as she had half day. so if they were goin to come, i had to make more rice to fill all our big fat potbellys. 

dad was at home (great relief) and he asked me how many will be coming. "maybe 2 i guess....." . i wasn't really sure who all would make it. anyways, we cooked rice for around 5 extra people! all set now! they came around 12.30 i guess... four people. motu, apu, abhi n trisha! ah, dad, what an estimation! and mom came home around 1.00 pm. thank god! no more tensions now.

we sat chatting for sometime until hunger was at its epitome. lunch was served in my room. mom n me laid the banana leaves, dad helped in serving. with every serving, followed an explanation as to what was what and how it was made :) apu ate very less i remember. ahh, what a ful'filling' lunch! :p

we decided to settle down in the hall after lunch. lying down like "so tired of eating", we occupied two couches and a bean bag, unaware of the whereabouts of our hands and feet. 

then some usual talk that we do (silly, philosophical, serious, futuristic, relations, academics... blah blah blah) with some 'usual' phone calls (abhi's aai) and yes, ameya also rang up that day. aai was curious to know were abhi was. and he said, "aai, don't worry, i'll be home in sometime. i am at vaidehi's place for lunch. today is onam..." aai: vaidehi nair? (no aai! all malayalees are not necessarily nairs!!) hehehehe

he was the only guy that day amongst us 'peoples' (almost always like that) coz somebody else couldn't make it. so all us girls in the background, "aai, don't u worry, he's safe, he's with us, your bahus!" LOL i don't think she heard that... not like she'd have a problem. but she should've been worried that he was the only guy amongst four girls! hahahaha

and in sometime they left. in the evening, my neighbour in the opposite building told me, 'i guess your friends were here in the afternoon. i could hear the noise..."

all i could do is manage to bring up a (weird) smile thinking, that aunty didn't hear of all the crap we were blabbing of... in spite our decibels being high...ummmm low.... :)

14th June... unforgettable!

There have been many 14th June's... but none like the one this year. 
It started as a normal day until afternoon when friends came home. They came home at around 4 and spent some time at my place (nothing unusual). We planned for some "peth pujan" on the way at Mc.D. As magical as it could get, it started drizzling the minute we stepped out of the house! Now, 3 bikes and 6 of us... Sanya and Trisha on one, Motu and Apu on one and me with Shradz. OMG! I swear i never had so much fun on a ride! By the time we reached SIMS, my hat flew off... and I would have considered myself the greatest idiot of all times, had I gone to fetch it back. Singing "ab ke sawan..." and all possible rain songs on the way, Shradz n me reached Mc.D first. All wet, we kept waiting for the others in that heavy rain. Not that we dnt enjoy it, but it was raining cats and dogs! In spite of  wearing  jackets and windcheaters, we were completely WET! Not even a single strand of hair dry! With so many prying eyes around us, we decided to leave... better late than never... haha! Just then we got a call from Sanya asking us to come over to Motu's room... I guessed it... something was wrong. 
We met them at the clinic down. Yes, once again Motu met with an accident... but a bad one this time. While the doc slaved over her giving her injections and stitches, we decided to bunk class. What an excitement... and Motu yelling as a background score. We called up to inform that 6 of us won't be coming. Not like they could change our minds but just as a formality. Sanya and me then decided to get a take away... hungry hippos like us! We took a take away for I guess 700 bucks and left asap because... we were wet and guys out there were not blind! Ok guys, i know we are wet, but stop staring at us like that! 
Back at the room changing into Motu's clothes, I ate like i'd never eaten before... everyone was the same...! With the cokes, fries, burgers, ketchups, wet clothes and more mess all around us... we enjoyed and partied like the world would end tomorrow (sans any party elements... which actually didn't matter)!
I keep thinking if we had a time machine... i'd definitely go back in time... just to relive those beautiful memories i had with some of the most special people of my life...!!! 

MOTU...

Manasi or just simply motu for me... 
Its going to be year since i met this girl. One of the most wonderful and important person of my life. When we first met, I seriously never imagined things to be so beautiful one year down the line. Like usual, we started off as good friends and got to know each other over time. Hmm, talking about her, she's a very interesting subject. She's from Nainital, a very beautiful place on our map. Like her place, she's a beautiful person : both by face and heart! 
She's like this sibling i never had. I could never think of getting into and out of problems so easily without her! LOL... Motu as we call her, she's a few extra pounds. Like me, somebody who doesn't feel embarrassed to say that we've put on pounds. But she's more than happy to hear us calling that! Our day is never really complete without talking or texting each other.  Had it not been for her, we could have never organised such great "dabba parties" n meet-ups ( credits : her room, she's a PG), had it not been for this motu, I could never have met awesome people and made friends, had it not been for her, we people could not learn to be strong enough ( she's a fattu and carries Hanuman Chalisa along... but not more than trisha of course).  I officially declare that this girl doesn't know to ride well. I've finally lost count of the number of times she's met with an accident! No, i can't bear to see her like that because... she yells way too badly when she gets stitches!
From shopping, to studying, to hangouts to sleepovers, she's my constant partner in crime! We love each other so much so that we even fall for the same guy(sammy) or rather the same dog! (she loves "DOGS" and adores them ) hahaha! LOL...!
Motu is someone who was there for me when i needed her the most...She's as protective of me as my mum, as loving as even i could not love myself...
For both of us, we are each other's bitches... absolute retards! When we're together, nothing much really matters. Gosh, i cannot think of a day without this mado in my life...
Its just that, I found her when she wanted me...

An unexpected muse..!

Its 4 months since my last blog... thanks to a busy schedule! I had no intentions of updating it until recently I spoke to a friend of mine. he said he read my blog and liked it. oh common, now who doesn't like some true appreciation! ok thank you! He said i must write often... now that put me in a fix! What do I write about? It all started as a joke when I told him that he'll be my next topic and surprisingly enough, he agreed! It was then that I thought... y not? So here I am, writing about this friend of mine. Its like writing a testimonial about him in my blog!

 Well, talking about him, he sure is quite a vibrant person. Maybe that helps him in making friends (talking about his increasing friend list by the day). But jokes apart, I initially thought that he is 'an angry young man' with some pessimism which he has hopefully overcome! I never thought he'd be this fun to be with. But that's only when he's in a good mood.Everything i say has different meanings according to him (some weird ones too)! We are literally tom and jerry bickering at each other and fighting for no serious reasons whatsoever most of the time. My Mr. Muse often likes solitary with just his thoughts and him (i wonder what he broods over.. or maybe i know! :P ). Unpredictable as,... I don't know what... you never know what he comes up with. One of the very few people who manage to drive me nuts... he's got exceptionally good skills at that. A family guy who likes to rebel for what he likes no matter what. His friends mean a lot to him, but not more than family. 
If at all you ever need an encyclopedia as to the best hangouts, food n drinks, there he is! 

Somebody who likes music and dance... and can cook pretty well if rumors are to be believed (no, i haven't tried)! 

A very straight-forward n frank person (yeah, people must be frank not fake). Good at making up jokes (good, bad, silly ones included) to cheer you up. But when he's in a bad mood, likes to be left alone like an uncharted territory. The quintessential Beckham or John according to his friends (I have no idea why they call him that).

I could go on and on. But what makes him stand out probably is that he is courageous and has this die-hard fight back attitude.

Many come and go, but just some people stay. You're one of those. Ok I  know that I am buttering you lots now, haha.
But seriously, he is one of the few people with whom i have absolutely no formalities, and the topic of conversation : silly or philosophical doesn't matter. I am just myself... best or worst ask him! LOL... 

I don't think there is anything much about you to be changed... except of course your phone! 

This and much more of knowing you for 3 years now! Cheers!